Time to get married!

"Nak kawen lah..." Heard that a lot lately.. Maybe because I'm studying in UIA that this matter seems to be discussed almost at all times by the girls. Especially the ones from religious school. No offend but most of them are really looking forward to get married. 

        Like yeah, I know that this university encourages its' students to get married A.S.A.P but still I don't find it to be something that is easy to do.

 I admit that I'm physically and mentally not ready to get married with anyone yet. So, here is my opinion on this matter. 

Yeah, marriage is a good thing but it takes a LOT of responsibility.

       "YOU have to be committed, it's a serious thing and you can't just decide to get married one day and to regret that u're married too soon another day."

One thing I notice about these people who wants to get married when they were still young or still studying is that when asked about "Why u want to get married too soon?", normally there are 3 answers. 

And these answers will determine whether this person really deserves to get married.

Here are the top three answers:

First: "To prevent me from doing maksiat"  --->  usually the typical answer. 

My opinion: "R u really that horny?"

Second: "I'm in love". 

My opinion: "R u sure that s/he is your jodoh/true love? R u sure u want to spend THE REST OF YOUR LIFE with him/her?"

*Marriage is a ONE time thing, u don't get to marry whenever u like and divorced your partner once you're bored.*

Third: "I am ready to held this responsibility and to be a good husband/wife to my wife/husband"

My opinion: Okay lah, go ahead..haha.. 

Then it's their turn to ask me.

Question: "Why? Don't you want to get married now?"

My answer: I am 22, and I'm not ready to surrender my freedom yet. InsyaAllah when the time comes, ( after I have fulfill all my dreams and travels around the world, shop till-I-drop and so on so forth) I will somehow be ready for it. But not at this current time. 

        So guys, sometimes I freaked out the moment you talked about marriage, because I don't see it as a "dancing-on-the-floor-thing" but more to "building-a-mansion-to-live-in". I want it to be perfect. Perfect in sense of time, like our age, after we have finished our study, realize our ambition & make our parents happy. 

Perfect in sense of knowledge and Iman.

        I want to be fully prepared for it. And by that time, ask my hand in marriage and I will say "Yes, I do" :)

P/S: "NO" to random guys. Cheers~ :p